| Location | South Wonston |
| Age | 18 years |
| Cause of Death | Hit and Run |
| Date of Birth | 19/10/1990 |
| Date of Death | 31/12/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,475 since 05/05/2009 |
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James was an amazing friend he would never say no to helping anyone in need after checking his hair looked ok of course.
On the 13th December 2008 James was on his way home from a friends house and some driver came speeding round the Stockbridge/Winchester round about just outside Headbourne Worthy the driver hit him and then reversed their car and drove off leavin him dieing on the side of the road. How can people be so cruel?
XxX messages from family and friends XxX
XxX Amanda XxX
i still cant believe it was you on that bike and the nerve of the driver to just leave you there i hope their concionce gets the better of them. i tired to save you but i guess you didnt want to fight anymore. i miss you so much honey i just wish i had told you how i felt about you before you passed i love you. i will neva forget wot u use to say to me when i was stayin at my nans 'ignore what everyone else says listen to what is inside you and put your mind to anythin you wanna do just keep at it and you will succeed it may not be straight away but you will and dont forget whatever happens i'm gunna be with you all the way'
Xx mum and dad xX
James we can't believe the news when Amanda phoned, we can't believe that she was one of the first people on the scene and she tired to save your life but it was too late. Everyday that goes pass we are starting to get to grips with the idea you're not coming home but every now and again we still think you're going to walk through the door. We just want you back.
Amanda and George did you proud at your funeral I know we had heard Amanda sing so many times before but when she was singign at your funeral it sounded different, she sung with true emotion at one point she was crying but still she kept going you always said she was a fighter and loved singing and nothing would stop her doing what she loved.
J i miss you so much, it wasn't so bad to begin with but now it kills me, if you and mike are up there thinking of ways to haunt me then please don't. i love you guys and to this day i wish both of you were still here but the truth is that your not and that kills me more than anything. i'm not afraid to admit that i miss you and every time i think of you a silent tear falls from my eyes. i love you very much james xxxx
well its been 2 years 1 month and 28 days wow that feels like forever and a day baby. when can i see you again? not a day goes past when you dont pop into my head maybe just a saying or something that reminds me of you but i promise you one thing if nothing else, you Mr Barker will never be forgotten, while my heart is beating and I have air in my lungs your memory will live on forever.
Love you forever and a day Mr don't ever forget that x see you soon sleep well ill be with you shortly x
There was never a time when I did not exist, nor you.
Nor will there be any future when we cease to be
omg
well babe its almost 2 years since u were taken away and i still miss u. every time i think its starting to look up it all come crashing down around me i just wish i was still in ur arms. no matter how much i wish it still doesnt bring u or mike back believe me ive tried. everyday that passes i know im a day closer to seeing u again and feeling ur warn embrace omg i cant wait x
i love you so much james
:(
well its almost 2 years since i was racin to the hospital just to see you.cant believe it has gone so quickly. im sorry to have to tell u this but ur dad is no longer with us he got diagnosed with cancer last year but it was too late so he should b on his way up to find you, i hope ur behaving urself. i cant wait for the day when i get to see you again and to be honest it cant come soon enough. i just want you home safe and sound the way you were. i use to be scared of dieing but now it just means i get to see you and mike again that day will be the best day in a long time. i love the way we use to be together it still hurts me to realise you're gone. i found a video of me mike you and sarah the other day u and mike rolling down chute hill and go karting down garstons track soo funny but i cried i want you back mr!
i could really use u here rite now just wish i cud b in ur arms to know that everythin is ok but of course its not cuz ur there and im here.
I LOVE YOU xxx
18 months
well dude its been 18 months since u got taken away but it still sucks just as much whenever i go round the round about at headbourne worthy i still get shivers down my back and i still feel ur presence.
just a lil question for u babe where u with me the other day in guildford hospital? it sounds weird i know but it felt like u were there with me.
your face still haunts me i had a dream about u the other day and it seemed so real i even told mum i was goin round urs today then she told me it was just a dream and u were really gone i just broke down and cried. i dnt think ive cried that hard in ages but it felt so real that u were still here and everything over the past 18 months wasnt true
people say u dnt miss wot uve got until its gone and believe me that is so true i wish i just told u exactly how u made me feel and wot u meant to me while u where here but now i want to tell u its too late
i love you james and nothing and nobody will ever change that xxx rest in paradise babe its the least u deserve
ur an angel that ive seen in the flesh
i miss you boii
everyday i misss yu a lil more but the pain is slowly goin away. no one will ever replace you in my heart or in my head. when mike got taken u were my rock that kept me strong and to this day i have no idea who has kept me strong now ur gone. no one can make me fell the way u did. you may be gone but u will never be forgotten thats for sure.
god saw you were gettin tired so he took you into his arms where you could sleep forever. people say he only takes the best first but im startin to wonder if he takes the best first to tes how strong we are. tbh babe i dont know how strong i am anymore you were my strength and seeing you on the floor like that broke my heart into a million pieces. i now know wot it feels like when someone says they felt their heart break and it bloody hurtts.
i know ur shining down on me from heaven and i know eventually we will be together once again on one sweet day i miss you james love u muchly xxx
hi
hey babe i know its been a while. hope ur ok up there. everyday i still miss u more than yesterday but less than tomorrow. everyday i still think about you. in lectures i still cant concentrate there's just something that reminds me of you every where i go. some days it does get frustrating because i just want you home again in my arms. i still think about the times we got your brother to drive us to Guildford for no reason what so ever but he didn't seen to mind much. Uni is going to be so weird without you there. some days i feel so fragile and vulnerable without you by my side. i know you're up there watching me and some days that makes me feel better but there are still so many questions that are left un answered and so many thing i wanted to say to you. all the things i wnted to say to you that day i still want to say them. i have never missed a man quite like you james and no one will ever replace you or even come close to you or mike i hope you two are ok up there and not in any more pain. just knowing you're still in pain would kill me i sure. you always use to say i was a fighter but i dont think i could hold that fight off for very long. well my lover man im off to bed sleep tight babe i love yu more everyday and cant wait to see you again xxx missing yoou loads
i miss yu
it feels like everyday stays the same and i miss you babe i hate it
i wish u were still here some days i think if u were i wudnt b who i am, the girl that makes a mess of everything that goes even slightly right. ever since i lost u and mike nothing feels the same any more.
nothing feels right any more i have so much to say but i dnt no how to put it into words
wot id give to have just one more moment wiv yu babe no one has any idea how much losin u cut me up inside
i cant believe i said id lay our love on the ground
as long as there still life in me babe ill always love you and i will always want you
u didnt even make it into the army if u had i dnt no wot id do id miss u even more than i do now if thats possible
i love you baby and always will rest in paradise baby
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ill keep this short and sweet man
Legend in the making!
no questions asked man you were
missing you a lot
look after mike for me wont you
sleep tight and don't rave too hard save some for me when I get there
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